3 hours in Casualty with J (no bones broken thankfully) followed by an accusation by the Head of J's school that, as a foundation governor, I have undermined the school management.

To cut a long story short - the accusation is based on a letter sent by my husband to the school inspectors re the lack of implementation of the school homework policy, which has been erroneously attributed to me and then blown out of all proportion - it has been referred to the CoG and the diocese - which led to a visit at 9:00pm tonight by the CoG.

I am extremely disturbed that my character and integrity should be questioned in such a manner, based on unsubstantiated ‘facts’, which are themselves based on a communication made by my husband, in confidence, to the Ofsted team.

I have been so hurt by this that I need to come to a decision whether I wish to remain a part of a team that would so hastily believe that I could act in such a manner.

I feel that I am due an apology from those concerned, as this issue has added considerable stress to me at a time when I am already under considerable stress from home issues.

I have just penned a letter to the CoG and am now off to deliver it through his door .. I may be able to get some sleep tonight then.